S3E4 JOYrific ๐ง Mental Health Minute with Dr. Matt | Resolving Resolutions: Embracing Kindness, Contentment, and the Myth of Happiness
In this podcast segment, Jamie Braithwaite & Dr. Matt Larson, engage in a lively discussion about New Year's resolutions and mental health ๐๏ธ๐ง . They ponder over the common dichotomy where people either adore or despise making resolutions, noting that most abandon them by January 13th ๐๐. The conversation dives into the reality of goal-setting and its often misguided association with happiness ๐ฏ๐.
Dr. Matt Larsen shares his journey of setting numerous, detailed goals across various life domains, including physical, social, and spiritual aspects ๐โโ๏ธ๐ฅ๐. Despite meticulously tracking his progress and achieving these goals, he confronts the realization that they didn't equate to happiness ๐๐. This revelation prompts him to shift focus towards appreciating his current state and seeking contentment in the present ๐๐ฑ.
We also dissect the elusive nature of happiness, suggesting that it's not a direct target but a byproduct of other life choices such as maintaining good health, balancing life, and nurturing meaningful relationships ๐ฅโค๏ธ๐๏ธโโ๏ธ. They propose an alternative New Year's resolution for listeners: to be helpful, be kind, and avoid whining, emphasizing the transformative power of kindness and helpfulness over the direct pursuit of happiness ๐ค๐โจ.